H hasn't answered my message in any way, shape or form.
I get really angry and want to say all kinds of nasty things to him, but this would be more of the same for old caverna.
New caverna holds on and waits, but oh, god, it's so hard! There are so many mean things he needs to hear, but what good can that bring anybody, but my instant tension release?
I want to tell him to go ahead and file, but HE hasn't even mentioned it anymore. His distance, in a way, is a good sign. It means he hasn't decided on THAT yet, but I confess I am scared. Could he be buying time?
He did say he needed time to "straighten his head."
I have been reading "men are from mars..." and even though I don't believe much the concept that genders are THAT different, I want to give the rubber band idea a try. There is also something like that on "Love must be tough." Basically, if he is going one way, I have to go the opposite direction.
