I just called him and left a message. A pretty simple one: "just wanted to know how your doctor's visit went. You asked me not to worry about you, but I do worry, so just let me know"
No lovey dovey, so I guess that's not too much pursuing. Now I will pull away and see what happens.
He is not answering his phone - maybe punishing me for asking for space?
PS: he is not doing any more passive-aggressive behavior. I pointed it out in our last fight that he left "clues" around the house about his moods towards me. Since our fight no clothes have been removed, no food has been taken, no pictures have been turned upside down.
