I have been in a strange good mood today. I haven't cryed since Sunday, a real big progress for me. GAL is really helping. I have been making a lot of friends and going out a lot. Plus, I am looking to start a new career.
The more I read nevanna's thread, the more I think about my own stitch in a different light. She didn't pursue her H, but she showed that she cared and left the doors open to him (I still can't believe how centered she was through her stitch - I would have gone ballistic MANY times). Anyway, one thing that she did that I just can't seem to do: she UNDERSTOOD him, or at least tryed, and validated his feelings.
Whenever my H expresses himself, all I do is punish him and show him he is wrong.
So, I was thinking, I know I have to do some sort of LRT and not contact him to talk about R or ask him out, but I think it would be a good move from my part just to check up on him and see if he is ok, since he is so depressed.
I think I was TOO harsh with him. He was here trying to express how upset and confused he has been and all I did was kick him out of the room and yell that he was driving ME crazy.
So I want to change my LRT a bit and see what happens.
