Quote: oh, gosh, you're so normal bj. I am going through the same emotions. I want him, but I want him a specific way: him chasing me and telling me he loves me and is here to stay. I don't want him as he is now. I'd rather be alone. Does that make any sense?
that's what you posted on my thread in response to my confusion.
Seems like round and round we go
one thing good is now you know what not to do - the worst think happened and your still here (still confused but not about picking up and running with the ok lets go out together issue) now the ball is entirely is in court don't you just hate those old sayings.
My thoughts are with you - you tried and that was a brave thing and you learnt something from it. That is also a good thing.
Guess it's back to the girls on one side of the room and the boys on other for a little while - do you think now is the time to go dark big time - find a dog sitter - and be unavailable
I think he is very confused and as you said do you want this confused person?
Am thinking I am going to be busy for awhile and switch my phone off at night - that is when he calls me.
Hopefully your H will get some help soon - he sounds like he really needs it - more than ever.
