logged back on to see what was happening and to read the response you got - I love the girls on one side of the room and the boys on the other
for what it is worth I have always believed there is no reason why a female can't ask a male - and so have always encouraged my female friends to ask a male for a date after all he didn't ask he may get away
I would think your H has made the move to wanting to be with you and now its your turn to pick up the 'hint' maybe say you thought about what he said and think it may be a good idea if you start over and begin 'dating' you would like to start by maybe suggesting you both do XXXX what does he think?
I guess he can only say no - and maybe this will leave the opening for him to come back later and say he has been thinking about it
You could suggest going to a nice restaraunt you both like
