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I have said it on several other threads but this is HARD work but the results do occur quickly when we get it right. Keeping them going is the hard part because backsliding happens almost immediately. I think some of the pain we experience is very necessary to keep us working on the goals and to keep things edgy enough to keep up the hard work. Remember, this is about US, not them.





I like that GW. Which one is your thread, by the way?

I read through my own stitch and just noticed how far I've come. The LRT really brought on some good results. I just had some real backsliding there. When H showed up crying and cold, I should have kept my big mouth shut. Again, anxiety took the best out of me.

Thanks to JJ and Sage I can see that I was giving up at the best part of the story: the idea of a reconciliation. Instead of letting things go slow, I became resentful and made it difficult for him...

Now, how do I go back there?


caverna's thread VII