I did call him to appologize for being so harsh with him. I said again that I needed to act like this so he could get help because he was harming me too.
He called later on, left a message saying he was taking the dog for the night and would call the next day to let me know when he would bring him back (I asked him to call beforehand when he was to come over). He didn't acknowledge my message.
When I got home I noticed that the clothes that he wore today were here (he usually takes them to his folks' home to make a point that he is not staying).
