Thank you Valerie. No, I don't think it's harsh of you to say that. The confusing part for me is that he is back and forth in considering our M and his feelings change all the time. That's why I am going crazy and I feel I need to take a stance. If he was just home and miserable, I'd be more supportive, but he comes home to me, cryes and says he doesn't know what he wants from us and than leaves and disappears.
