Quote: so don't give up on him he needs you more than you or he thinks . good luck
One goal for the next few weeks - I want to stop the codepency stitch and force him to take action and do something about his depression.
When this happens, he will: - get an appointment with a doctor - stop the pity behavior to justify his mean actions (such as showing up to see me, but always in a bad mood and non-affectionate)
I think what I can do about it is remain supportive, but refrain from playing therapist. Now, how do I do that?
I thought about calling and saying I was sorry for being so harsh with him, but that I thought it was necessary.