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so don't give up on him he needs you more than you or he thinks . good luck





One goal for the next few weeks -
I want to stop the codepency stitch and force him to take action and do something about his depression.

When this happens, he will:
- get an appointment with a doctor
- stop the pity behavior to justify his mean actions (such as showing up to see me, but always in a bad mood and non-affectionate)

I think what I can do about it is remain supportive, but refrain from playing therapist. Now, how do I do that?

I thought about calling and saying I was sorry for being so harsh with him, but that I thought it was necessary.

Any thoughts?


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