Hi sorry for your situation, but i to have been and still gong through depression, its hard for a man to admit to have a problem,'we ae the hunters, bread winners MEN' these things are taught to us from birth. if he admits he has aproblem and starts to get help he will feel out of control, not in charge of his future. I felt the same way, i evenually did get help and the only went for a few weeks and realised that it does help and it changed my whole out look on life, i now spend as much time with the kids as i can, would like to spend time with W but cant(hoping soon ), so don't give up on him he needs you more than you or he thinks . good luck