Wow. I guess I had a different interpretation.

Read to me like a guy who was trying to see his w that he is separated from. I took a quick glance at your last thread and it seemed as though some point you felt as though he was going out of his way to avoid you and that was bugging you, right? Now it's swung the other direction and that feels controlling?

My suggestion would be to create some very specific goals and build actions around them. I wouldn't try to diagnose h's behavior...use it only as a guide to figure out if you're getting closer or further away from your goals.

So, what 2 or 3 short term goals would you like to work on?

Sage


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