Just a little recap:
H and I have been separated for three months. After much drama and talks about D, when I finally gave up he wanted to try it again. Now he wants to date. PS: no kids.
I told him on Tuesday that I wouldn't be home yesterday. I lied and here is the reason why: since he wants to date, I think we should do it properly. I am sick and tired of just running into him coming in and out of the house as he pleases and not knowing if he is going to be grumpy, or crying, or weird, or somewhat normal, so I want to cut that kind of interaction.
I came home from work at 9pm and the dog wasn't here. That usually means he will come back to drop off the dog. In other words, even though I told him I wasn't going to be home, he found a way to run into me. My interpretation: to control me.
So luckly a friend asked to go out and we went to have dinner together. I didn't get home until past 12am and the dog was here. I also noticed that our bed was messy, meaning he took a nap probably waiting for me.
How much do you want to bet that he won't call or come over today because I went out yesterday and wasn't just sitting around waiting for his crumbs of love and affection????
