I dont understand how everyone can keep saying we both should clean the house. She is a housewife! So im supposed to work all week then clean my house all weekend and the whole time she can just do whatever? Maybe she should get a job!?! I have expressed many times my feelings and tried to talk about it. She just says "arghh, now you think I am a bad wife" Its very frustrating. The sex thing i donnt get. We hug all day and cuddle all day. If I try to get her to have sex she just pushes me away. I can understand.