I mean I hooked up with a girl and we went back to my hotel but I got a guilty concious and called it off. My wife found out about it. As far as the internet went it was sexually but it was only talk. Im sure to her it was more. We havent talked to anyone about the baby just comforted each other. I would never push her to get over it. We both want children, not in a hurry to get them but want them. She is usually a happy girl, the kind of girl who cheers up the whole room. Except when I press her about cleaning and sex. Im not sure what you mean by stints? If you mean sex wise it used to be about 2 weeks before the ectopic pregnancy. Now theres almost no interest for her. The things that bother me also is that she stays at home spends money on whatever she wants (as do I) but I work over 40 hours a week. She doesnt clean at all. If I say something about it then she says see "I am a bad wife" and cries and her tears break my heart cause i love her soo much. I personally feel that she is depressed but not sure.