James,

Sexual abuse can come back to haunt people in many forms, don't discount her past when it comes to this issue. Personally, I'm doubting that it has much to do with it...unless you are exhibiting behaviors similar to the person who abused her; but I'm not willing to really take that route here yet. It's far too early to assume that her past abuse is the cause of her problem right now.

GEL


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!