I am new to this forum but thought I would attempt to "vent" in hopes that my marriage becomes DBed before the Divorce subject seriously comes up.
I knew my wife for 3 monthes before we got married (possibly a HUGE mistake). She is Jehovah's Witness, I am a reformed convicted felon. We will be married 2 years come January. This relationship has been the most dramatic, difficult, emotional, etc I have ever been in. Let's cut to the chase..
Unless we ML or have sex, she feels uncomfortable with me touching her in all 3 areas (butt, breasts, and PA [Private Area]). Her kisses involve no tongue unless we ML. 98% of the time we do ML or have sex, I am the one who pursues it. The 2% is usually very rare occasions. When we do have sex, even then sometimes, she feels uncomfortable with me touching her!
When we do ML or have sex, most of the time it is great but she still wants me to "hurry up and c*m" shortly after she does. She HATES the "dirty talk" during sex, and I can count on one hand how many times she gives me oral pleasure. I offer to give her oral pleasure on a regular and I know I do it right, but she "doesn't like that" now.
The thing that really bothers me that in the beginning of our marriage, sex was frequent and PERFECT. Now, it's becoming a hassle to even make it happen. I'm tired of being sexually frustrated. She has called me a "sex fiend" and all I want is for us to make love regularly (not even daily). I give her PLENTY of attention, and try to show plenty of affection to no avail. COMPLETE STRANGERS AND WOMEN I KNOW, WANT ME MORE THAN MY OWN WIFE!!! I'm lost.. And yes, I've tried just about everything except divorce.
