Sitch m12yrs, 3 kids, me38, H 38 2yrs ago OW. It's been a bumpy ride and he won't go to counseling anymore but I still can't deal. He has never said he is sorry, never. He calims our M was already over. I am still stinging from the fact that he did this and isn't remorseful. I don't expect him to pay for it the rest of his life, but damn! I have said this to him on serveral occasions, but no go. I can't let it go. Em