I'm over from "We're separated" at long last. My W and I reconciled after almost ten months separated, and I couldn't be happier.
I think my signature line has links to my sitch - but suffice it to say it was a lot of the same old stuff during separation.
We've been together now again for about 3 or 4 months now and the newness is starting to wear off. This is probably to be expected as we settle down into our 9 year marriage again. There are a lot of positives in everything now.
I am experiencing a lot of anxiety, though lately. I am having a hard time feeling comfortable in our R all of the time. Essentially I am having trouble feeling confidence in US.
My question for you guys is, is this normal? Being the LBS, I figure that I would probably feel this way naturally - skeptical of my comfort, maybe even worried about what may be around the next corner for us.
Does this go away slowly? I have a tendency to be impatient, am I hoping for too much, too fast?
Any advice you guys have on this would be greatly appreciated!
R
"Find a way to spend a little time every day working to become what you are destined to be."
