Hello Wendylon, I haven't posted here before, I'm over at the MLC forum. I was just searching for someone living with H, with no intimacy (yet). H moved back in August, our R is better than ever in all other aspects, but he just won't touch me in any way. I get so discouraged at times. I also found out H is sending messages to a possible OW2. I'm debating if I should confront him about this or not. I'm not showing much affection for fear of rejection. Your thread got me wondering if I should just give him a kiss every now and then. Well, the times I have given him a peck on the lips, he has not run out screaming. In fact he gave me one a couple of days ago... Your H is much more open about his reasons than mine. Maybe they are just so afraid to "go back" and be stuck with the life they were so desperately trying to run away from?