Dear Wendy Happy new year Wendy – onward and upward in 2006. Firstly yes of course you belong in piecing – and every day that you are wonderful wendy counts towards a better marriage. Your kindness, understanding and patience will be sinking into your H all the time. It has been a long haul but it’s working.
With regard to your evenings, could you suggest to your H you spend an evening together – playing a game, watching a good film (try and avoid anything with betrayal, adultery ) or if you usually eat en famille make a special meal just for the two of you. Try and do it once a week and no matter how much effort you have put in don’t forget to appreciate your H spending the time with you rather than in his office.
