Unilateral Disarmement - 3

[Wendylon]

Midip, I don't know what I did wrong because I responded to you a few days ago and it's not here! It was also a long update and I can't believe it's not here. No wonder I haven't got any responses! I think I must have messed up with the posting.

Thank you again so much for dropping by my thread, midiP. It does help me to remember that H did give up the biggest of all fantasies. Thinking of that makes me more patient. (OW is getting fat!! I'm hoping that that is putting H off a bit.)

I drove H to the station this morning as he's off to China to go to a conference. He kissed me on the mouth as he left. That hasn't happened in ages! At the moment, there is less tension between us. As I drove him, I remembered driving him to the station last March and being in tears. I was far from being in tears this time as right at the moment our R isn't too painful. No intimacy but there is a certain ease that there hasn't been in a while.

Fingers crossed that our Tribunal will be deferred. If it isn't we'll probably lose. We should find out soon.

After H kissed me this morning, I had a sense that our R will continue to heal in time.

Wendy