hi wendy
so pleased you and H have this great bond over S6. I think that is so important.

I may have said this before but don't forget the good things about H and how hard it must have been for him to arrive back committed to your marriage in the face of giving up a fantasy (I know from my H that he really did feel that he was going to be with OW forever and that he loathed me and that their 'love' (puke) would conquer all.)

Try to keep adding a bit of warmth at every opportunity and I am sure the love you show will come back to you.

lots of love