There are so many similarities in the challenges we face, the lack of immediate intimacy, the feeling of 'engineering' opportunities to dbing etc. All I can say is that for me, it has been an educational journey, and although we are by no means 100% out of the woods, I do feel like I am in a better relationship now than I was 3 years ago. Most of this is due to being able to read NG better, and not expecting him to show affectation the way I would show affection. Very, very difficult at that time though
