Dear Wendy
I'm so pleased to find you here as piecing you are. And what good advice from H2H here for me too.

It was wonderful meeting you - a real high spot of my holiday from home and I love having the real images of you and your home all bathed in that sunshine. I think concentrating on the good bits and underplaying the bad is a good idea or we allow the bad to spoil the good. I'm probably talking to myself more than to you here.

You really have come a long long way, through you perseverence and strength (not to mention intelligence and beauty) and I'm really proud to know you. Be bold give him a hug and a kiss and if he hugs you back tell him how nice it is. The fear of rejection will create rejection and if he runs out of the house screaming because his wife has kissed him goodnight that's his problem but he's probably more likely to feel loved.
lots of love