Hi Wendy, I'm glad you're willing to give it a try - but tell me, why would it feel "fake"? Self-conscious I understand, but fake?
Don't put so much pressure on yourself - don't make it a big thing. Just a little experiment and a lot of living by your values. Ok?
I also seem to recall from way back when that your H. responded to WOA, but you were having trouble coming up with them. How's that going? Think you can find a couple of things to compliment him on?