So, I'm wondering how to make the most and DB in the situation above. W decided she wants a D, talked about it, lot of legal issues out of the way. D appears to be *very* amicable and W talks about being good friends but not the best of friends, talks about hanging out from time to time, went from ice queen to as good of friends as we were when we first started dating! W all gung ho about getting it done right and done as soon as possible, even wants to minimize my CS while maximizing parenting time.
