Try to stay away from lawyers as much as possible.
My wife was outspoken to me the day she left. We would always let each other know when we were upset. My sitch is complicated and my wife's family played a major part. My wife has never spoken to me in 4 months. I have never seen her. After two weeks of leaving me after a silly argument that is all, i received a separation agreement in the mail. What a shock I can tell you. Well I had to get a lawyer at that point.
I have tried to be as fare as I can. I have even gone as far as agreeing to pay her what she is asking. But the more I try to give her the more she wants. It appears her lawyer loves taking all of his clients cases to court, no matter what. She is now asking me to pay her lawyers costs, she wants me to sell the house, even though I have payed her her share of the equity. She just doesn't want me to live there. so she is trying everything.
Look after yourself, keep emotions out of it. When the dust is settled yuo will regret selling the farm because it isn't what you think it will do. giving your wife what she is asking will not make her come back to you.
