Emotionally, I'm about as good as I can get. I'm not worried about the massive spiral that could happen - been there, done that, GAL works wonders. What I'm trying to look is making this easier on a woman who is so normally outspoken towards me its outrageous, but yet turns around and can't bring herself to tell me she wants a D - despite all the sleeping separate and ice queen and paranoia on her part.
I don't plan on doing any work for her, either. She wants it, she's gotta work for it, you know? It would be . . . counterproductive to do it for her.
