Do you have any ideas on helping facilitate this process in the manner I listed above?
Don't get me wrong, I don't want a divorce. I just want to make this as easy as possible for her.
No, sorry, don't have any ideas on how to make it easier on her, because I'd be more interested in making it easier on you.
I would let her do all the work in obtaining a divorce. I wouldn't make it nasty, and I wouldn't just accept anything she wants to do, but I wouldn't lift a finger to help her out. There are reasons why.
