My Divorce will be final in Dec. Of course I don't want it. I ask for it many times but really just wanted her to change. We don't have any kids but she has a daughter that I raised from birth(4 yrs old now) I have offered to adopt and pay child support. My W and I have raring spoken in the last 2 months. I didn't beg or plead when she said over the phone that she was leaving I just said ok. I helped her load her stuff. I told her that I didn't want the divorce and then went on like the books says and started to work on my own life. She called Friday just to talk and it kills me inside. I don't know what to tell her to make her want me. I am just listening to her and trying to be a friend she seems to be working on getting her life together. Trying to go back to school and get a job, which is why we had our fights anyhow because she wouldn't do it. Now she lives 60 miles away and I don't know if I should call her or just leave her alone. DB doesn't work if they don't know that you are doing it.
