update, my Ds left two weeks ago, in the airport my youngest D cried so much, that it really broke my heart.... but i reacted the way i read in a book, i hugged her, identified her emotions, and let time pass.... then she recovered and was fine. well, the sit is in status quo. no communication from my part, from hers, its like she wants to be a good parent, and thus trying to be a friend (we only write however) . the more time passes, the less i need or want of her, so it is really sad that the process is moving forward.... everyone is getting used to this new way of life..... nowadays, my emotions range from indifference to anger to less and less, sadness. but, the big but, is that we do not communicate. i read ny survivor new post, what a lousy attitude of the WAS, its like she was playing head games, he is better off really moving on, and i wonder where tambo is, i would really like to read an update.
