My 1st W and i get along well. We have 2 very well adjusted sons. I went through a breif phase like your going through now. My ex forgave my very rare outbursts and I forgave her infidelity. We still love eachother, in a caring way only. The boys always come 1st for both of us. Someday we will be at their wedding and there will be no drama.

your not trying to save a marriage right now as much as make your kids life the best possible. You are detaching from the ex, but do it with love. For you, for the kids, and even for her.


Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding