DBnow,

You sound like I feel quite often. Just last night I was thinking that my h was beginning to look like a roommate to me (and not the fun kind either) and I didn't care what he did. Then I thought about our daughter and what our family means to her. So, I kept DBing and went to sleep. This morning, I hated him but I kept DBing and he went to work. Right now, I miss him and am glad I kept DBing because I really DON'T want our marriage to end like this. The point is, just wait a couple of days until your emotions calm down and then revisist what you want.

Hope this helps.