I couldn't agree more. For me too, I am finally able to say I have let go... I have grown into a better person, and see the world differently now - better. I didn't want to be divorced, but I am a better person for it.
M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5 no children Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(
