I dunno about the second half of the Madonna/Whore sydrom, but poss/prob the first part as his dad abandoned his mom by H's 3bd. That and things were 'just fine' before the wedding ring poisioning. Mute at this point, except for theraputic release for all involved. (HM deceased)

Anyway has anyone heard of a bad encounter, that with odor or desease or something being brought forward to the event from that day forward? Maybe you can extrapolate? H is allergic to fish; but not really. I thought it was real till he loved some gumbolia[sp] and a recent interview with the nuclear medicine ppl in prepreation for a proceedure. Then there were fish oil capsules for Omegs3 and inflamation which shows no complications.

Could a "meaninful, infamous" encounter have tainted him for life psychologically?

How does a novice 'go there'? He won't go to a shrink, affectionatly. Or does the leaman just give up?

Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay