Chuck, when I posted to you, I thought you were totally stuck, not making any progress with the heart and flying situation. Had I had more information, I would not have posted exactly the way I did.
I mostly wanted to share what I did when I had a major loss. I didn't want to minimize the impact, not flying as a career had on you. Being stuck or feeling short changed in life isn't much fun. I have been there a couple of times and am saddened to see others there too. Best wishes on what ever you were/are feeling.
Lil, I said it made me so sad, because one of the simple pleasures I had looked forward to (my H lost his leg after we were married 4 years) was long walks with my husband
Lil, I see and feel in my own way, some of your loss. Hugs to you ((((Lil)))), Walking with your H sounded like a very comforting thing, and then it is taken away from both of you. Sad.
I concur what the therapist said, missed the point you were making, and agree with you, dufus, dufus, dufus.
