...You are still deflecting and avoiding your responsibility in setting your own direction and making the best of what you’ve got. Stop trying to dodge this and find someone to make it better for you. ...
...Do you have it in you to become an inspiration to your family by becoming a success in some other way? Can you empower yourself enough to feel good about another career?
I'm not dodgeing or avoiding anything; I simply explained what "happened" to me. I did move on. I am making the best of what I've got. It took a long time to find another good fit, but I did it. I have another career that I feel good about, at which I like to think I'm a success. It works for me. But when push comes to shove...I'd rather be flying, and that will always be the case.
heatherg: didn't see your post before I made this one. but I bet if you asked your dad, he'd say he wished he had his legs back.