In an effort not to take your thread, CAC I hope you will visit here and address this. Cobra's thread
CAC4
Has your wife tried to reassure you that you are very much the man? So much so, that in the confines of your relationship when no danger is eminent you can let your guard down and open up.
CAC, can you tell me why this is so difficult?
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
