Quote: So, are you saying, your H wants you to pursue or charm him even if he doesn't pursue you? He wants you to charm him because he fixes something or he does something like make coffee for you?
No Lou, this was a need on my part to be apreciated, I guess. I always thought I was desirable and his rejections time and time again were so hurting. My ovatures to making the moving of the lawn swing easy that were not acted to as I had thought lead the discussion to "I can't even do you a nice"....(whatdoyouknow? back on the thread) Thats when the comment about excercising my feminine wilds retort mentioned earlier came out. Evidently I always want something. (percieved by him anyhow) I guess there is no level to have some reactions with him. The mariage has been reduced to "best buddies", going with him to trade shows and yard work.
OH thanks for the {{{{HUGS}}}}. Yes they are something! *smiles*
Last edited by LostGal; 08/10/0605:57 PM.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
