"Also the men have been remarkable silent, all my male friends say ' you let him live with you? you idiot its all your fault, you deserve it.' and my male aquaintences say the typical 'dump the biatch'. Which prompts me to pick them up by their necks.... have some respect. I dont say that, (except to her face, with humor) dont you either. anyways.
--yikes. Just from the little I've read about OM he sounds like a toxic personality. Not evil, per se, just someone best kept beyond arm's reach. And did I read that right? He sent pics and love letters from your x via a holiday mass mailing to his 'friends'? WTF?
A. not respectful to your x -- even if she did give the green light.
B. (most importantly) uhhhh, can we say TOTALLY disrespectful to include your addy. in the email. Double-WTF? In my realm that is grounds for an azz-kicking.
***WARNING!***
A BF flaw just crossed my scope. Gotta harsh on ya and scramble the F18s to hit afterburn and light your azz up to the hard deck.
EGO...letting OM be roomie borders on egomaniacal...if left unchecked henceforth will reach egomegalomanaical. The Iliad is chocked full of such bloody hubris.
To US Swede, personally I do not see one blip of BF selfishness on my scope. As a matter of fact, I thinnk he goes out of his way to offer solutions/suggestions to those who will listen; that's the antithesis of selfish. Narcissist? Hmmm, iffy, need more data...
BEEP! [scope lighting up] What the...? sigh. Spoke too soon.
I just see now his banishment of TSinA from his post with his characteristic magician's flourish. tsk tsk. Now that's selfish, BF and ya damned well know it. [Stigmata quickly snatches BF's wand, snaps it in two, hands it back]
Back to this OM viking. Even if my x gave green light I would never reveal her inner thoughts about "us" "me" whatever to anyone else. God, nothing's sacred to this rogue. Friggin' automaton.
BF, if you get that D will you marry me? LOL. At least YOU can look past all the sparkly diamonds in my ring offer for a much deeper significance it would seem.
You been in Rikers awhile huh? LOL of course I will after your D, but I get to be dominant. ROFLMAO. You asked for that one. LOL. Gosh, I kill me.
--Well, I understand about people calling your x the B word; have heard them sent my x's way too. I won't say it cuz here on The Island everyone is a Biatch...on cell block C. So far I've managed by sleeping with a Frisbee down my shorts but the cig carton tally on me is reaching an impressive number. You'll have to stand in line.
Seriously, Belize I am so there. say when. we'll stay on Ambergris Caye , (oops I mean Ambergris Caye) I have some former students/friends there. Lots of english lasses to flirt with if your espanol is rusty. (Me llamo es piednegro. hmmm. no not quite right.) You bring clothes on back, leather flip flops, and beer money. I will bring scuba gear.
--I clicked the link and swore I heard seagulls and the smell of salty air and margaritas? Shaking head.
*Clothes on back: check. *leather flip flops: check. *Beer money: cash, not check.
Stig= PADI Advanced Diver certified....uh, in late 80s. cough.
On a serious note.
Have you made a decision yet? YOU have to make the decision. If you want to save your M and DB, it cannot be with hesitation or doubt. The outcome is irrelevant. What she thinks and does has to be irrelevant.
It can be done. Do you want to? Did you read break free, yet?
--As much as I hate doling out 50 ducats for "lazybone authors ether texts" I have it (Break Free) open right now on my comp. along with what will be the first of many opened beers. Wish I had this thing a couple years ago. Eyes forward, Stigmata.
Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays have been BRUTAL on me. I'm just over 30 days alone and I know x is out and about somewhere in the city etc. and hard to do the thought-stopping. Weekend=fun, supposed to.
BTW, bonus text is a "she doesn't love you anymore" thing. Lot of same DB principals but worth the freebie I guess. I am DBing x but jury is still out as to my commitment level. More on this later. Post too long. Fingernails too long (chew, chew). Beer too full.
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
