OK, "selfish and narcissistic" is not name-calling? This is not a description of a situation. This is a description of a person, one who is so blind and caught up in his own self-importance that he has no appreciation for the feelings of others. OK, I probably don't agree with USSwede (I said why I don't like him; I don't like Swedes), I haven't thought enough about BF's situation; I am just saying Swede's post is ad hominem. His post says some very unflattering things about BF's personality.
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms, 1929.
