Go back, if you feel like it, and read some of BF's previous posts...perhaps you didn't catch those. He did speak quite a bit about self-confidence being attractive to women...and it most absolutely is. It tends to be attractive, to some degree, to men and women. NOPkins also posted quite a bit about this a few months ago.
I believe you come across so negatively on here because you don't post much that's in a positive light. Does that mean you don't think positively, not necessarily...but you don't tend to post positive, encouraging things...at least not that I've seen in this SSM BB. Perhaps you just don't post the things you think of that are positive, or that you notice in other posters replies....but by posting primarily negative things you can come across as a cranky child wanting attention.
Getting irked that someone may not respond to your post means to me, that you are assuming they are choosing not to respond to you. Do you even give the person the benefit of the doubt that they simply may not have seen your post? It happens to all of us. Jumping to the negative line of thinking that he thinks you are just not important is just that...negative.
TS...go back and read some of your posts objectively. You have several people telling you that you come off negatively. Is it just us? Or could it actually be....that you do come off negatively? Try taking an objective look at your posts...maybe you'll see what we see too.
We aren't saying you're some jerk, most likely you're a really nice guy. There's much more to you than what we see here, but take a look at how you come across here and how many people are telling you the same things....there's something to it TS.
