People react to self confidence. Period. End of story. If blackfoot's got it, he's going to attract other people with it.
I don't recall BF posting anything about self-confidence. What caught my eye was his theory about dominance/submission. What held my attention was his theory about the woman submissive in sex and the man dominant. "Proven by biology", he said. Self-confidence, that's another matter.
Lemme ask you this: Are you normally this negative with your spouse? I don't consider myself negative, just not dishonest. If it irks me that I post to BF's site, and he doesn't respond, and his "whatevers" are his surrogate responders, this makes me feel like someone in the President's (God) office, who asks to see the President, "Oh, you're not important, he can't see you, we can let you talk with one of his/her spokespeople (flunkies - no, I didn't say that, I did not say that!!!)."
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms, 1929.