Yes visionary does equal just my vivid imagination alot. My H like yours seems to lack it. He is more the conformed sex type.
think I need to start building some "H and I" sexual adventures. He'd probably be up for it if I brought it up but there we go again...Why can't he initiate these things?
That is me to a tee! Sometimes my zany side just overtakes it all. But even then if he does something it is a exact repeat. BLAH BLAH boring. Like watching the same movie daily for 15 years. Even if I change the channel and H likes the new show. Tomorrow he is watching that old movie again. And the thought of him picking up the remote and changing the channels seems impossible for him.
But I had a adventurous life before him. Which allows me some fond memories of a time when sex was spicey. And I was not the only one through spice in the blend.
Pumpkin butter is great on english muffins! I am going to use it in some cookies I make for the holidays. I will post the recipe on my thread later tonight when I get back from picking up my son.
