Chrissy Just caught onto that thread. Good stuff. Posted a little analysis to TSinA just before this one. I think BF has some wonderful qualities that the men and women can learn a lot from for sure. He obviously appeals to both sexes. I can see how some men would find him threatening. Haven't heard from any women who find him a turn-off. Or if they don't like what he says, they may not be able to deny that he has a raw sexual attractiveness. Goes back to biology and evolution. We fight our natural tendencies to be dominant (the male) and submissive (the female). Women do this all the time. Want to be the strong powerful woman so they find a submissive male (recipe for trouble). Totally reverses the natural order. Likewise, just as BF did, he found a dominant female that clashed with his dominant male. Also recipe for trouble. Constant clashes over who is more dominant. So let's see, then you have the submissive-submissive couple. Not as much a recipe for disaster in the chaotic sense but I think these couples tend to be boring, stagnant, certainly not having a rip roaring sex life, and just sort of go through life ho hum. Yuck. I'd rather have a litte chaos personally. Self-fulfilling prophecy, anyone? i have issues
