Right on, sister! I mean Chrissy. I'm a little punchy tonight. And I'm not even drinking,lol. I'm just trying to imagine being in a long-term R/M with Blackfoot (this is where you hear the Wayne's World "doodaledoo" over and over and see the wavy watery transition to dream/imagination. (Maybe the Starbucks Jave Chip ice cream is making me loony ) Anyways, I would probably constantly feel on edge around him. I'd like it in the beginning and then it would probably sap my strength after a while. Always having to be "on" and such. Might even start to perceive him viewing me as inferior, that he could do better. And any strong smart woman is going to show him, put him to the test. In fact, I don't think he would be attracted to anyone who didn't eventually test him He doesn't go for wallflowers. And thus, the Catch-22. He will continue to attract those very females who will kick him in the ass down the road. Sorry Blackfoot, just telling it as I see it. What other way could there be?