Its when she does start acting like she wants to come back that I get internally PO'ed.

I can relate to this. What really bugs me is when I hear his words filtered through my 7 year old daughter, "Daddy loves you mommy and he misses you. He "likes" OW as a friend, but he loves you." D8 is rolling her eyes....This after he brought my kids along on a weekend visit to his parents' house with ow and her kids.

He's made his choice, he needs to stop confusing the kids and stop bugging me...

This is where dbing becomes something for YOU, not necessarily for saving that relationship that was a marriage. I think about giving up the board every now and then, but there are so many people here that have really wise and helpful things to say....I'm not one, but I like to listen

Last edited by Mellanie; 11/09/05 12:05 PM.
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