Stigmata, dont know if you have a plan, if your W is having A or if she is just a WA, I am assuming A.
There was a poster here named CSW, and NOPkins gave him a lot of great advice that applies no matter the details.
If you havent read thru his threads do so and check out the advice. Doing the Shuffle
There are several threads prior to this one follow the links, lots of good advice from everyone. There are also several recommended Reads in the threads.
here is one more I came across a couple months ago. Its a quick read, too the point and makes the affair about the cheaters not the LBS. Which it is.
