I get the feeling my communication style is completely foreign to you.
Quote: So when I think someone is not being straight with me, when a women says she wants to be loved in a respectful relationship and then leaps to defend you in your dominance/submissive syndrome, that chaps my b*tt
so you are upset wtih the ladies for not scorching me for my 'syndrome'. There is two possibilites for for them not doing this, either they see something you dont, understand it differently then you do or because they are afraid of me/my response.
I dont think the latter is likely. Do you. Please say yes so the can wallop you.
I am going to stop the sarcasm, dry humor with you, either I suck at it or you dont get it.
I need some validation now. Did anybody get it?
You didnt deal with any of the real topics I brought up, self esteem, frustration at womens conflicting expressions of what they want vs. what they respond to, SSM, etc.
I do see more Eeyore type comments, mentality. Women do not find this attractive. Are you interested in changing, or do you want to be be loved for 'just being me'?
you can respond, and get some ideas from others here or just keep lurking and try to figure it out.
Good luck.
GEL excellent post, very clear and easy to understand. It is somewhat along the lines of what I was trying to convey, and again you have shown that you 'get it' and have put a lot of effort into it. Many guys will read this and go 'hey thats what I want from my W' instead of thinking -hmmm how can I act in a way that will generate this response in my W.
Karen, your post and the silk scarves comment has cracked me and my usual refrain from commiserating. New plan.
I want you to sneak up on him and smack him with a billy club at the base of his skull. A real good wallop. Hopefully this will reprogram, or unscramble his ID and when he regains consciousness will throw you over his shoulder take you to the bedroom and ravage you.
