One thing to I want to mention and see if you all have any feedback on this.......He went around telling everyone that I told him to get out. It's like he didn't want people thinking at all that he left on his own. What I did say to him is that if he couldn't shape up in some of the things I thought were important then he needed to leave. Because I was tired of dealing with it. Funny thing is I said this and then two weeks go by and we hadn't even had an arguement and I came home from work and he was gone with the kiddos in the new place he was renting. I went and picked up the children and told him he was not going to handle it that way. And just walk out without even a notice or anything and drag our children into it while I was at work.
He didn't onve mention to anyone that he had a low sex drive and I was tired of it. Or that I was tired of him drinking when he had the children. It just seemed so important for him to tell everyone I made him get out.
